Now let's get more specific.
I have listed some problem areas that could be applied to your relationship.
If in fact these are areas where you have identified problems, circle the
corresponding number. Then rank the problem areas from one (your
worst problem area) to whatever corresponds to your lreast problem area.
In other words, if you believe your biggest problem area involves trust,
that would be number one. If your least problem are wa ssex and you
have identified seven relevant areas, then sex would have a ranking of
seventh. You don't have to rank everything - just the ones that you
think apply most significantly to you. In the space provided, write
one sentence that describes the essence or core element of the problem.
Trust | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Sex | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Money | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Family | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Time | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Children | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Lack of intimacy | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Communications | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Rage | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Drugs/alcohol | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Harshness | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Criticisms | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Fear | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Infidelty | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Boredom | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Lack of passion | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Jealousy | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |
Division of labor | ______________________________________________________________________________________ |